Gratefulness in Islam: A Door to Multiple Blessings

Being grateful in Islam is a means for more blessings to unfold. Allah says in the Qur’an:

“If you are grateful, I will certainly give you more.”

[Surah Ibrahim]

Allah promises to multiply our blessings if we show contentment at whatever we have. Sometimes, we don’t have the blessings we see in other people’s lives. We feel isolated at the fact that we are deprived of the basic blessings of life. But we must understand that Allah tests those whom he loves. Being grateful in Islam is a key to open the doors of more blessings. So, always be grateful to Allah.

The Question That Tore My Heart Apart

To my daughter,

We were at your cousin’s house and his father rang the doorbell. Your cousin, as he ran towards the door, yelled “Baba’s here.” And you ran, too, not really knowing why exactly – just running because he was running.

Then, our eyes met as you waited for the door to be opened, and you asked me something. You didn’t mean to burst me, you didn’t mean for the taut happiness around my heart to suddenly tear and let out the pain that was bandaged up tight. You didn’t mean it, but you asked me:

I have a baba, too, right?

I paused and held your face with my right hand, looking into your eyes and simply said, yes, you do have a baba.

Then I went on like nothing happened, like you hadn’t torn a hole in me, like the world was bright and peachy and my only concern was whether we were going to get stuck in traffic on the way home.

Then when you fell asleep that night, I stood up to pray. I recited Surat Al-Duha, my favourite surah. The surah that gives hope. The surah that takes pain away. The surah that teaches us to be grateful to Allah always.

“By the morning brightness

And [by] the night when it covers with darkness,

Your Lord has not taken leave of you, [O Muhammad], nor has He detested [you].

And indeed the Hereafter is better for you than the present (life of this world).”

I stopped at the fourth verse and I repeated it and repeated it.

‘And indeed the Hereafter is better for you than the present.’

And when I couldn’t repeat it anymore, I repeated it in my heart as I cried.

All because of your little, big words.

Pain With Purpose: How I Stay Grateful to Allah

Sometimes my fears get the better of me. I wish that this test of losing a parent hadn’t fallen on you. You of a sweet year-round suntanned complexion and dark, mischievous eyes. You of wild tantrums and honey-laden girly laughter. You of innocent flesh still inhabiting this earth.

You’ve been tested even before you understand what a test is. I cannot do a thing about it, I fear, except hold onto you tightly, swing you wildly, laugh with you incessantly, then cry only after you fall asleep, repeating under my breath:

“Indeed, the Hereafter is better for you and me than the present.”

I am grateful to Allah. It is because I understand there is a wisdom behind this test.

The Verse That Taught Me to Be Grateful to Allah

You will learn this verse, I promise you. You have to know it, you have to engrave it into your heart, seal it into your soul, sew it into the very fibers that make you you.

To answer your question permanently: You have a baba. Not had. Have. He is not gone – he is, we hope, in the presence of those close to God. His blood runs through your veins, and in time you’ll understand how much that means.

You’ll grow up around friends who have their fathers’ hands to hold and shoulders to sit on. I won’t lie – it won’t be the same for you or us. But we have to believe that it will be better.

Better because God doesn’t leave the believers to themselves even for the blink of an eye.

Better because He is the Wali, close friend and protector, of the believers. Better because everything He plans for us is to strengthen us and push us to stand up and walk forward with faith confidence. We have to be grateful to Allah despite the pain.

The very next verse in Surat Al-Duha is,

“And verily, your Lord will give you so that you shall be well-pleased.”

Expect good to come. Don’t just hope for it. Expect it from Him and Him alone.

I pray you are always well-pleased with what He gives you.